The approach aspect of the seduction phase is probably the most glorified moment in the whole process. I have no idea why, but maybe it’s because it just looks so visually impressive.
I mean, the ability to just walk up to a random hottie and get her phone number is pretty much any man’s dream.
So that’s why a lot of guys get caught up in approaching women. But let me tell you, approaching women is just one of the MANY aspects involved in seduction and you shouldn’t spend all your time stressing about getting the perfect opener.
As long as you’re able to say something decent then she doesn’t tell you to get lost, then you’re onto something.
But hey, that’s just my opinion and you’re entitled to your own as well.
Before you make your decision however, let me inform you some facts on opening women.
There has been a lot of debate about what really works when approaching a woman.
The PUA opinion opener is one of the most popular openers for a guy to use when talking to a girl for the first time because it doesn’t seem like he’s hitting on her. Now this might seem like a good thing at first, sometimes you’re better off NOT using an opinion opener.
Why?
If you don’t know how to transition the conversation in a way that sets you up to get her phone number or Facebook you’re going to end up talking about something that you really don’t give a shit about. Not only will this waste your time but you’re going to not be paying attention to what she’s saying.
Why PUA opinion openers rock
You’re going to then be pressured and wondering “oh shit what do I ask her next” when she starts talking about whatever topic you opened her with. Not only does this put you in a bad situation but it makes you feel like a fraud.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that the PUA opinion opener is a BAD thing. No, it’s actually pretty in genius at times, but you have to make sure when you do use it, the situation calls for the proper usage. Otherwise you’re just going to be incongruent with the application and make yourself fail.
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