This article is dedicated to providing you comprehensive first date tips.

The purpose is to make sure that you get beyond the first date and make it to the second date (or to the bed room).

So in order to simplify things, I’m going to start telling you where you should NOT go, that way you’ll get a better understanding of where you SHOULD go.

DO NOT go to the following places for a first date:

Cinemas – Please avoid watching movies on your first date as much as you can. You have to remember the first date should about getting to know each other.  This should be the date that establishes a certain level of comfort between the two of you. So how are you going to get to know her better on a personal level where you meet up with her for the first time in a place that does not allow you to openly talk? Also, think about this. You watch a movie for 2 hours and after that, you are exhausted. Watching a movie makes people tired and she’ll probably just want to go home after the movie.See what I mean? Going to the movies is a recipe for disaster on the first date because you don’t get to find out what she’s like as a person. In essence you’re wasting the first date!

Clubbing – You might think is the perfect time to bring a girl out so you can grind her. But guess what? If this is the first time you’re out together, she’s going to NOT let you grind her and if you do try anything like that she’s going to think you’re sleazy. You want to make sure that you build enough comfort and rapport with her before you start going all sexual on her. If you take her to a club and expect that the two of you are going to dirty dance, then this is not the case. Also, it’s loud as hell and you can hardly hear each other. So you’re not going to be constantly yelling in her ear and you’re not going to be able to find out anything more about her – apart from the fact that she has a nice body and looks hot in short shorts. But what’s the use? Unless you’re able to get her interested in you emotionally you’re not going to be able to access your nice body and you’re just going to end up teasing yourself.

Fancy restaurants - Avoid very expensive dinners and sophisticated restaurants.  Why? Because unless you go to these places all the time, you’re putting on a charade in order to impress her. You’re not going to be able to keep this up for the long term and you’re actually setting yourself up to fail.

You’ll be creating a false expectation in her mind that you have no way of fulfilling for extended periods of time. Imagine the disappointment that she’ll get when she finds out that you’re not the person that you let her think you were? It’s just like how guys feel when they find out what a girl actually looks like without makeup. You know that feeling of total disappointment when a previously hot babe turns into a bushpig after she removes her makeup. That’s what she’s going to feel like once she finds out you don’t actually live the life of star everyday.

Now the you have two examples of places NOT to go, let me tell you where you should be heading.

These are some great first date tips and ideas:

• go and play mini golf
• take her to a fun museum
• take her to kayaking
• take her bike riding

As you may have discovered, all these places are where FUN activities take place! Not only will are most of these dates dirt cheap, but it gives you a chance to really open up and get to know each other in a low pressure environment. The  idea is to have fun and still have the opportunity to get to know her at the same time.

Oh did I mention, if you take her to do these activities, even if you suck at conversation and have nothing interesting to say, you’re going to be able to avoid awkward silences, because the two of you will actually be preoccupied doing something that’s actually interesting!

So you save yourself the need to do small talking (if you’re bad at it).

So remember this.

Nothing too expensive.

It’s got to be fun and interactive.

That’s the perfect formula for a great date.

You get the idea right?  The main concept of the date is to make sure that you get to know her and she gets to know you. At the same time you don’t want to break your bank trying to impress her.

Thanks for coming to my site. I know most of you guys are interested in knowing how to get women to literally CRAVE you. I have a 6 part video seduction course where I show you step by step what to do. By the way it's all free... If you like the sound of getting girls and learning through videos for free, then click here!