The sad thing in our society when it comes to dating and relationships is the fact that it’s so lame and embarrassing for a guy if he gets rejected trying to attract women into his life.

But it’s ok, that’s what I’m here to help you with. Today, I’m going to show you what you need to know in order to get the girls you want to be sexually attracted to you whilst you’re totally under the radar.

But before I begin, I have to stress the fact that if you’re one of the guys that ONLY talks to women, especially ONLY the attractive girls, then you have to stop.

You need to be one of the guys that are “naturally friendly” with everyone. By being so selective with who you’re nice to and willing to help out with, you’re making it painfully obvious to the people around you that you’re a selfish guy who only wants one thing – sex.

So even if you do manage to get a few girls interested in you, her friends are going to be there persuading her NOT to get with you. You don’t want that to happen. Instead you want to have everyone being your wingman or wingwoman without you needing to do much at all.

The first step to getting that to happen is to be one of the super cool guys that is friendly with EVERYONE.

Be super helpful

One thing that you notice about guys who get girls all the time is that he’s just helpful. People turn to him in general when they need someone or something done and he’s only too happy to contribute.

If you want to attract women, one method that makes it easier for you to talk to her is start helping her or her friends. The reason you want to do this is because you’ll start building rapport and a friendship with her naturally so it will seem as if you’re not trying to pick her up.

You also create an excuse and great opportunities for you to naturally just appear where she’ll be – because you’re there helping her. This way it won’t seem contrived that you’re only there to get into her pants.

One thing I need to mention is that you need to make sure that she’s not using you for your services. I said be helpful, but don’t use manipulated. I see a lot of guys drive girls around and do the things that a boyfriend would be doing for the girl they want. This would be fine if they were sleeping with the girl or was her boyfriend, but more often than not she just uses him and then goes out with other men when it comes to fulfilling her sexual desires.

So how do you test this?

See if she’s willing to invite you out to places on her own accord in her own spare time. If she’s always too cool for you on the weekends, but suddenly calls you up at 3 am to pick her up for a club, then you’re being used.

Talk to EVERYONE

The next point I want to mention is that you need to be talkative to everyone. This includes the men that you are around. Do not commit the sin of only chatting to girls.

If you do this, you’re going to create guys who are going to actively cockblock you from picking up the girls around them. This will be the case even if they are NOT attracted to those girls, they just think you’re a dick and will do what they can in order to prevent you from succeeding with women.

You want to turn this around and be a guy that they WANT to introduce to their female friends because “this guy is really cool”. So how does that happen? You have to be friendly and talk to EVERYONE not just the girls you like.

Be the “go to guy”

If you are the person others turn to in order to get information about a specific topic or event, then you’re going to be the “go to guy” for everything. I used to run social events, so I was the “go to guy” for some parties in my area. That would mean I’d be able to start talking to people and tell them about our events naturally. So it’s not surprising I would meet a lot of women and have the chance to talk to so many cute girls without making it so obvious that I was trying to pick them up.

As long as you have a legitimate and real excuse to be where you are or talk to the girls around you, then you’re going to go under the radar when you want to pick up girls and attract them.

So remember, if you want to learn how to attract women without making it obvious you have to be a friendly, helpful guy that is nice to everyone. Once this happens everyone wants to talk to you and you’ll be in the hub of attention. That way whenever you do pickup girls, it will just be natural and won’t seem like that’s your only reason for talking to her. That is how you appear OFF the radar.

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