Good work! You’ve made it to the first date, now you are probably wondering “oh shit, what am I going to talk about for the next few hours so she’ll like me”.

Never fear my friend, I am here to help!

But before I tell you what to talk about, let me give you some advice. You simply cannot rely on these topics and hope that  by asking these questions she’s just going to magically fall in love with you.

Because that’s not what I am about.

I am here to give you support and guidance, and teach you what works and what doesn’t. But at the end of the day, it’s up to you to attract the girl using your own personality. Think about using these questions more like a tool, to get what you want faster, but do not rely on it like a crutch.

I cannot stress this fact enough. I can only help you get where you want, but you need to be the one that understands where the final destination is. I see a lot of guys relying blindly on routines and pickup lines that work for other guys and wonder why they can’t get it to work. The reason for this is because you’re not being true to yourself and women have a magical ability to sense through the BS.

I am your wingman, but YOU’RE THE DRIVER!

Oh and one more thing, make sure that you don’t make the conversation sound like a job interview, because that’s unattractive. Make it fun and interactive so the both of you will have a great time. You don’t want to make it sound like you’re trying to see if she’s an applicable candidate to join your organisation. What you want to find out is if she’s cool enough to hang with you and to see if the two of you will get a long just dandy.

The key element is to listen to every word that she says, then ask her more detailed questions about what she just mentioned, and steadily keep it flowing from that point on.  Once again, don’t make it sound like an interrogation as this will turn her off and make her sound like a robot.

An example is like this:

You: … oh I see you like XYZ, I like that too, that’s so cool, I remember a story when ABC happened and that’s why I liked XYZ

You give her an example of why you agree with her opinions and share a similar experience. This builds rapport and creates a real connection that you cannot fake between the two of you. This makes you that much more special and different to all the other guys out there trying to get into her pants.

This is what is going to make you stand out.

Do not suffocate her

Remember you have to be able to give her space!

You don’t want to dominate the conversation so that she’s got nothing to add.You have to give her the time to speak as this will really help in letting her tell you all the things there is to know about her.  Here are the first date conversation starters I recommend.

1. Childhood memories– there is nothing more fun to talk about than a happy childhood, this is easy and fun to talk about.
2. What should she do if someone was bad mouthing her friend?  This would be a great way to find out what kind of person she is.
3. Be imaginative and ask her what would be her dream tonight.  Who knows? It just might include you in the dream and you can take the step further.
4. If someone asked her to attend a party where she knows no one.  Would she be willing to go?
5. Ask her about her growth span, and find out the time when she found out she was growing faster than she anticipated.
6. Be creative and ask her, is she could travel back or forward in time, when would be the ideal time she would want to leave the time machine?
7. Would she want to change anything in history?  What would it be and why?
8.  Ask her about her wild side and how daring she is.  Will she be willing to join a wild event or rather let it pass by?
9. If she could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
10. Which sex lies more? men or women?

These are some proven great first date conversation starters. But remember, with everything I teach you, you have to make sure that you add your own personality and style to it. Otherwise you’re just going to be a generic guy who just spits out lines that anyone can find in Google. Have something that is unique and special to you and you’ll discover that women will actually like you for YOU!

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